It is normal for someone who is sick to feel uneasy, restless, afraid, or anxious. Certain thoughts, pain, or trouble breathing may trigger these feelings. Palliative care providers can help the person cope with these symptoms and feelings.
Alternative Names
End of life care - fear and anxiety; Hospice care - fear and anxiety
Palliative Care
Palliative care is a holistic approach to care that focuses on treating pain and symptoms and improving quality of life in people with serious illnesses and sometimes a limited life span.
When You Have Fear or Anxiety
Fear or anxiety may lead to:
Feelings that things are not right
Fear
Worry
Confusion
Unable to pay attention, focus, or concentrate
Loss of control
Tension
Your body may express what you are feeling in these ways:
Think about what worked in the past. What helps when you feel fear or anxiety? Were you able to do something about it? For example, if the fear or anxiety started with a pain, did taking pain medicine help?
To help you relax:
Breathe slowly and deeply for a few minutes.
Listen to music that calms you.
Slowly count backward from 100 to 0.
Do yoga, qigong, or tai chi.
Have someone massage your hands, feet, arms, or back.
Pet a cat or dog.
Ask someone to read to you.
To prevent feeling anxious:
When you need to rest, tell visitors to come another time.
Take your medicine as it was prescribed.
Do not drink alcohol.
Do not have drinks with caffeine.
Many people find they can prevent or manage these feelings if they can talk to someone they trust.
Talk to a friend or loved one who is willing to listen.
When you see your health care providers, talk about your fears.
If you have worries about money or other issues, or just want to talk about your feelings, ask to see a social worker.
Your provider can give you medicine to help with these feelings. Do not be afraid to use it the way it is prescribed. If you have questions or concerns about the medicine, ask your provider or pharmacist.
When to Call the Doctor
Contact your provider when you have:
Feelings that may be causing your anxiety (such as fear of dying or worrying about money)
Concerns about your illness
Problems with family or friend relationships
Spiritual concerns
Signs and symptoms that your anxiety is changing or getting worse
Cremens MC, Robinson EM, Brenner KO, McCoy TH, Brendel RW. Care at the end of life. In: Stern TA, Freudenreich O, Smith FA, Fricchione GL, Rosenbaum JF, eds. Massachusetts General Hospital Handbook of General Hospital Psychiatry. 7th ed. Philadelphia, PA: Elsevier; 2018:chap 46.
Review Date:
2/3/2024
Reviewed By:
Frank D. Brodkey, MD, FCCM, Associate Professor, Section of Pulmonary and Critical Care Medicine, University of Wisconsin School of Medicine and Public Health, Madison, WI. Also reviewed by David C. Dugdale, MD, Medical Director, Brenda Conaway, Editorial Director, and the A.D.A.M. Editorial team.